I think I would like to write about my view, my reality, how I feel about behavior, what is manners.
Behavior, manners is a learned mechanism… Since One is thought ever since one gets a body here on this Planet: how to talk, how to think, how to walk, dress, eat, play, make love, how to hold that cup, and how to cut that meat before one puts it into that machine.
One learned everything… all the musts: necessities, obligations, duties, requirements, essentials, fundamental basic laws in order to belong.. to be accepted, to be part of the group, to be invited into the group.
And if one dares to be original and behave bit differently than that acceptable narrow behavior of the group, than one is warned off, or dismissed, given derogatory labels, and with that downgraded, invalidated to death and is told: one has no value, no worth.
So behavior, the proper-correct mannerisms are a very important part one needs to play in order to belong. Within this proper behavior, it is normal to lie, to cheat, to steal, long as one doesn’t get cut.
One can lie to somebody’s face while looking into their eyes and say” you look absolutely terrific” and thinking silently” you look like a day old vomit on the sidewalk.” But the behavior was proper, It was in order and the compliment was put there properly.
My point is very simple, as long as one do not get cut, anything goes an This Planet.
Let’s be honest, very honest: what would happen to your marriage if your spouse suddenly could read your thoughts?
How long your boss would keep you if he too could read your mind how you think +what you withhold from him?
How long would your best friend or your group would keep you if they would really know how you think of them privately or, in fact, would you still be friends if you would know how they really think of you?
What are the odds? Any idea that the friendship would remain intact?
Human activities are two kinds: one is the social critter, the other on seldom comes out in the open unless provoked. Then look out, there is a double barrel gun, or they take you to court, run you down on the side walk, or burn your house down, or rob you blind, etc…etc..etc…
There is ONE question which can penetrates that social mask, that veneer, that valance: HAS A WITHOLD BEEN MISSED? The magical key which opens up ones universe!!!
That question unlocks that secret door to the beings core and that question allows self to responsively confront one’s own hidden thought of “self”: and allows one to really get to know self, what is all there to know about self; how we think privately; who we really are.
When one has so much auditing as I have had so far, the social veneer is as-ised and one no longer hides behind that socially acceptable MASK, being nice in the face of others and show the middle finger behind their back.
One acts behaves the same way at all times…. No more lies, no withholds, what you see hear is what you get.
One’s life becomes very simple this way. You no longer need to hide those secret thoughts, no longer need to avert looking into eyes of others, no longer need to remember what was said, so next time the story will be the same.
Everything becomes simple: One say blue because one really means blue One say I love you because one knows that love is there, and when one say fuck off, that means exactly that.
Auditing erases those falsities, deceptiveness, devious cunning elements which causes the confusion, the need to hide things and to hide from other.
With that, one is free of being nice for reasons just because wanting to gain: by kissing up to someone in order to be accepted into group. In other words, one no longer compromises their reality!!!! Not even a little bit!
One becomes open and exposed to others to be experienced by them and at the same time experience their universes, and one says exactly as one feels.
The interesting thing about all this is that one becomes and talks in a straightforward way with no more lies, no more veneer, no more hiding behind valances. But one is labeled: rude, don’t have manners, don’t know how to behave therefore banky and needs auditing. hehehe.
Bloody Hell, I love that part when somebody emails me a long list what I should handle and tell me I need to learn manners hehehe.. fun…much fun. How I should behave is his/her reality how one should be in order to be normal being. Judged by their standard how one should be and need to be in order to be accepted by them!!
Humans are so used to dealing with valances, deceptions, lies that by now they believe honest straightforward –ness is rude and should be corrected. In other words, put on a nice front so I can see you and believe that you are nice?
I have news for you: beings in the Spiritual Universe one don’t have manners and one does not lie, cheat, or steal. There is no such a concept as out-ethics and we haven’t the need to know how to hold the wine glass in order to look classy.
Any of those social niceties which have import on this planet, one leaves behind by as-ising the MEST and I have as-ised the MEST and it is true I don’t have manners.
In the Spiritual Universe which I call the Magical Universe, my home: what you see-experience that is yours, there is nothing more and nothing less. That is the reason the greeting is: I AM WHAT YOU ARE.
And I let you know a little secret: one only needs to say that greeting once when one re-enters this universe. Why is that? We live in the one-ness. After all, I am what you are!
PS: Somewhere along on my way out of the MEST universe, the desire, the yearning, the need to gain approval, to be acknowledged, has vanished. Yet I belong. I am the member of the most powerful group of beings in the Universe….
With this I say, your judgement of me how I am, how I behave is your reality and not mine.. and it is assumption a idea how one should be IF [ you should be like this because you have erased the Bank]…. those if’s are assumptions which are no more than labels and those labels are what? you answer that, I know the answer already.
One more question: how one should behave when one do not have a Bank? Where is the Book of Rules and who has written that Book?